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Em muitos países, ao contrário do Brasil, a discriminação de homens em Direito de Familia está sendo extinto. Por exemplo em Europa, onde a nova imigração está mudando as paradigmas. Na grande maioria da população mundial, a família está sendo mantida por tradição e cultura. . O lobby que durante décadas influenciou a Justiça está sendo combatido. Os poucos países ainda perdidos nas mentirias do catolicismo e marxismo estão hoje destacando-se como os países ocidentais mais pobres, atrasados e subdesenvolvidos. Brasil é um exemplo claro, onde uma Justiça corrupta e ignorante ainda insiste no seu caminho de ré, no seu totalitarismo atoladana ignorância.
Pena que o brasileiro geralmente nem sabe informar-se em outras línguas, ai ele podia entender que a injustiça contra Pais e Filhos tem os seus dias contadas fora do Brasil. Eram inúmeros os casos onde mulheres vadias, preguiçosa e cruéis, sacrificam o próprio filho por mera ganância e ignorância. Países desenvolvidos começaram entender seus erros nos passados e procuram consertar. Brasil ainda não.
Quem sabe ler idiomas globais como inglês, alemão e italiano podem informar-se o que está acontecendo nos países desenvolvidos:
http://www.ilovepapa.it/index.asp
https://europeanfathers.wordpress.com/
http://www.trennungsvaeter.de/
Here are 10 reasons why kids without dads are at a great disadvantage:
1. Balance:
Mothers are amazing. Fathers are amazing too. But we were created to learn and grow as balanced people. Dad is a unique piece of that puzzle.
2. Parenting at best is a tag team sport:
Reality check: Father does not know best – and neither does Mother. But between them, employing their complimentary gifts, more often than not, they’ll get it right.
3. Mom is missing something too:
We’re not saying a woman is incomplete without a man. What we are saying is that kids miss out twice when there’s no father in the home. Kids whose mom is loved eloquently by their dad have the advantage of a mother who’s loved by a good man. Every child should live in a home like that.
4. Modeling for boys:
Boys need to see what it means to live as a man. Men are different in a variety of ways. Boys who see man stuff in action around the home on a day-to-day basis are at an advantage to be better equipped.
5. Modeling for girls:
Most girls are going to get married one day. If they haven’t seen a real-life dad being a good man, day in and day out, then they have missed a great opportunity to understand what to value and what to look for.
6. The family is a model love relationship:
Love is the great force in relationships. The family is a place where the dynamics of love between a man and a woman work themselves out in the real world. Commitment, faithfulness, forgiveness, discipline, belief – all these and more play out in front of a child’s eyes. Without a dad, this very important part of the function of a family simply is not there to instruct children. Not having a father present in the home is a huge loss in that regard.
7. The best man:
Not every young man is going to ask Dad to be best man at his wedding but, beyond the ceremonial moment, Dad should be there to fulfill the role from the day his kids start dating to the day they start a family of their own.
8. Loss of focused time:
Understand this, a single-parent family is not 50% of a parenting unit. In fact, it’s no fraction of a family because a single parent family is a bona fide family, period. But, in the metrics of time, a missing dad is irreplaceable in terms of what a dad does while the other parent is doing what they do. No matter how talented mom is, she can’t be duplicated and she is finite in time and space.
9. The cost in innocence:
Try this question: When there’s no dad around for mom to lean on (and vice versa), then who is left to play the other grown-up when one’s needed? Just in case you wonder, a grown-up is often needed. It doesn’t matter how old the kids are, they’re going to step up and fill those shoes prematurely and there’s a cost to go along with that.
10. The cost in security:
Ideally, one job dad does best is carrying the mantle of security for a family. It doesn’t mean he’s always strong physically, and it doesn’t mean that mom is weak. The “dad” kind of security is a simple fact of biology. But it’s real, and every child without a father loses something intangible that takes its toll in confidence.
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