How should we educate children?  An example from a tribe in Borneo. long time ago: :  

//www.youtube.com/watch?v=ib48PSbpM4o
( Orang asli in the Malaysian djungle)

SUCCESS IS NOT FOR FREE
AND YOU CAN´T BUY IT

The son of the Chief said:

I must work with the others
But harder and better
Because I am the son of the Chief
And watched by many others